Marriage Test Part Two

1. When my spouse criticizes me, I most often:

Ignore them and bite my tongue

Listen and try to understand

Defend myself

Throw things at them

2. When your spouse makes jokes in a social setting, they are usually:

Some jokes about your marriage that are harmless

Mostly jokes about your marriage that are offensive

All jokes about you in a very negative light and it feels like a personal attack

Funny jokes on subject matter that everyone can laugh at

3. When it comes to politics:

We have different political views, but respect the differences

We have very different political views and it sometimes causes conflict

We have extremly different political views and argue about it frequently

We share the same political views

4. When it comes to religion:

My spouse and I share the same religious / spiritual beliefs

We have different beliefs but are respectful of our differences

Our religious beliefs sometimes cause conflicts

Our beliefs are fundamentally different and we rarely agree

5. Our diet and exercise habits

My spouse and/or I will not change our habits

My spouse and I have a mutual interest in healthy exercise

Our differences about diet and exercise are causing problems

One of us has more interest than the other in health/diet and exercise

6. It's your birthday, anniversary, or another holiday or special date. Your spouse:

Forgot as they often do

Has a gift/plans for you that they genuine thought into

Found something cheap at a garage sale

Has a gift/plans for you but it feels like an afterthought.

7. When it comes to co-parenting:

Not very social in general

Living in our separate social worlds

Very socially connected as a couple

Somewhat socially connected to others

8. Have you ever thought about having an affair?

Never, even on the worst day I wouldn't entertain the idea of an affair

I am currently having an affair

Sometimes, but I would never act on it

I often think about having an affair

9. Drugs / Alcohol Use:

One of us uses tobacco /drugs/ alcohol recreationally, but it's not a concern

Neither myself or my spouse consume any drugs (other than the occasional drink or cigarette socially)

Only one of us uses tobacco/drugs/alcohol. We do not handle this the same way

I believe myself and/or my partner have a problem with drug/alcohol abuse

10. In the time we have been in a relationship...

Our love for each other has grown

I respect my partner less

We've hit bottom

Our mutual respect has remained stable

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